Even the best relationships are bound to have moments of tension and if we’re not careful, the way we handle these situations can harm what we have worked so hard to achieve. Acknowledging the other person’s feelings in addition to voicing your own can go a long way toward healing a rift. It’s usually best if you can speak openly and honestly about your feelings face-to-face. But what if you’re afraid you’ll become too emotional to discuss the situation rationally or you find you are interrupted too often to get your point across? Try writing a letter! Letters can be an excellent way to communicate when you’re upset because 1) writing can help you sort through your feelings and clarify them and 2) writing lets you express your point of view without interruption. You can give your letter to the recipient to be read later in a non-stressful environment. Or you can actually read the letter aloud to the other person, requesting that you not be interrupted until you are finished. The silent treatment can make matters worse and does not allow the relationship to grow. Experience the power of the pen!
Certified Professional Life Coach
New Leaf Coaching, LLC